Ask Dr. Warren ~ The Questions & Their Answers


3 February 2003

  1. When to Get a Second Opinion
  2. Infant Refuses Solids
  3. Parents A+, Child O+!?!
  4. Dr. Won't Do Sweat Test
  5. 3 Year Old Refuses to Toilet Train
  6. You Can Only Get a Cold by Catching It
  7. Swelling in the Genital Area
  8. Erythroblastosis Fetalis & ADHD
  9. Disclaimer

Disclaimer

Dear Readers:
Dr. Warren hopes to help all who ask his advice and to enlighten all who read Ask Dr. Warren. For your own well being please keep in mind that advice you read here may not apply exactly to your own situation, and that if you are sick, no information on the web can take the place of a hands on examination by your physican who knows you and cares about you.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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When to Get a Second Opinion

Dear Dr. Warren: Hi. I have a question regarding my 21 month old daughter. She sometimes rolls her eyes back in her head and also blinks lightly at the same time. Thought it was just her being cute, but I cannot get miss copycat to do it for me. Seems she has no idea what I'm talking about. Then my roomate told me he saw her three times twitching her head to one side and doing the eye thing while standing there. The first two times were just for about ten seconds, and the third one just the other day was for about one minute. He tried calling her name and clapping and snapping in her face to try to get her attention, but she that didn't get her attention. I've never seen her do this myself, but when she does the eye thing she is always in the kitchen and she seems to look up at the light. The other night when she was twitching, the light was off and she said she wanted it on so they turned it on and that is when it happened. I don't know if the whole light change idea is a wives tale or not, but I thought that might be relevant. I have told all this to my pediatrician, who told me to wait until she does it again and see if picking her up or touching her will make her stop. I'm wondering if I should get a second opinion or if I should wait. The evidence that I have so far seems good enough to test her in my opinion, but I am a worried mother so maybe I'm overreacting. Advice please.

-AL

Dear AL: You present a child who may be having seizures. Your question, then, is should she be evaluated now, or is it reasonable to wait as your pediatrician has suggested. The answer is, "It depends." When I am presented with a scenario such as yours I often ask the parents to videotape it for me. If I can see what the parent is talking about, I have a better idea of whether or not the event could possibly be a seizure.Why not evaluate your daughter right away? From your description of the questionable events as well as the little you've told me about your daughter's daily life, it sounds like she's in no immediate danger. The approach your pediatrician has recommended may help you see if there is a need for further evaluation without doing any costly and possibly frightening tests. Pediatricians tend to avoid procedures unless they are clearly indicated because young children do so many things that cannot always be explained, most of which are not related to medical problems. A period of directed observation ( the doctor tells the parents what to look for and asks for events and certain surrounding circumstances to be written in a log) can often safely help determine what evaluation is needed and may even provide vital diagnostic information.

Why evaluate your daughter right away? Other than the cost of a consultation, a visit to a neurologist will not hurt your daughter; however, unless he can clearly tell from your description (a video could be invaluable) he will have to do some testing. Of course, if your child has a seizure disorder, the same testing will have to be done which would probably include an EEG, CT scan or MRI of the brain, and some blood tests. The imaging studies may require sedation or anesthesia.

Even though an evaluation involves some expense, discomfort, and sometimes some risk, it may be wise for your pediatrician to refer you now. If you are extremely anxious you may not find his "wait and see" attitude comforting, and may not feel that he is acting in your best interest. His reassurances may come across as cavalier, lack of concern, lack of interest, or even ignorance of what is the next best step.

In spite of how aware I am of these issues, I have disappointed patients who felt that I should have taken action immediately. If they consulted another physician because they didn't agree with waiting and ultimately some problem was found, they would conclude I'd missed the diagnosis. I have also had patients who responded to my suggestion that we proceed with further evaluation in questionable situation by asking, "Do we really have to do it now? Can't we wait and see what happens?"

If you are uncomfortable with waiting, explain how you feel to your pediatrician and ask him for a referral to a pediatric neurologist.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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Infant Refuses Solids

Dear Dr. Warren: My son is 8 months old and two weeks ago started to refuse to eat all solid foods. He is not sick and eagerly goes after his bottle, taking in about 28 ounces of formula per day. However, while he used to eat 2-3 small baby food jars / day plus cereal, he now will not take any solid food given to him. Obviously I am concerned since he should be making progress in eating rather than regressing, but he closes his mouth tightly and thrusts his head to the side whenever I come close with the spoon. I am an American and live in Milan, Italy so I feel a bit isolated and don't know what to do. It's exasperating and since he's an intelligent boy who is completely where he should be in all other areas of development, I can't figure out why the feeding has become such a problem. I'm afraid 28 ounces of formula a day is not enough for a 19 pound boy in terms of protein, iron, etc. and that he really needs to eat solids but I've tried everything to no avail. (He is on Enfamil with Iron.) Can you please give me some advice as to what I should do? Thank you kindly.

-A

Dear A: Milk is complete food for growth at any age since it contains plenty of protein, and the necessary amount of fat, and has adequate carbohydrate for energy. Milk does not meet all possible nutritional needs, but formula has vitamins and minerals added to it. Formula does lack fiber which becomes important for normal intestinal function.

You don't need to worry that your son will become malnourished as long as he is eating enough formula to continue gaining weight adequately. He may prefer the bottles for a variety of reasons such as teething or a need for sucking. However, feeding him all that formula may become a habit, and here is where it becomes difficult to make a change. While I don't advocate starving your child, he won't be hungry for food if he constantly fills up on bottles. Whatever his reason for having given up on food, you have to try periodically to not give him bottles in place of the food he refuses or he may continue to live on bottles.

Even though your son is young and may not be ready to eat your food, it would be helpful for him to experience mealtime by sitting in his highchair with you when the rest of the family eats. Let him start to associate food with a pleasant circumstance just as he associates his bottles with comfort.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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Parents A+, Child O+ !?!

Dear Dr. Warren: My husband's blood type is A+, my blood type is A+, my son is O+ -- is this possible?

Thank you.

(We learned this via the Red Cross when the three of us went to give blood)

-KL

Dear KL: Many genetic traits like blood type are controlled by two genes. Since the A blood type is a dominant trait, both you and your husband may be A+ with only one gene for type A with the second gene for type O. If neither of you contributed an A gene to your son (i.e., both of you gave him your O gene), his blood type would be O.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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Doctor Won't Do Sweat Test

Dear Dr. Warren: I have a question for you: My son has been to see a specialist in Sudbury. They had told me that it was either celiac disease or cystic fibrosis. I have been waiting almost a year to find out what is the problem and I am getting very impatient. They have done the following tests : stool sample, blood test and the "vanila" test. However they have never mentioned doing a sweat test. I have asked my family doctor here if he would be able to refer me to a specialist in Toronto but he refuses. He told me to deal with the specialist in Sudbury who will not be back in his office until March 15th. I am getting very worried. I do know that both conditions if left untreated can lead to other very serious diseases and I don't want that. Not to mention that cystic fibrosis is already serious enough. Would you be able to help me? Maybe give me some type of advice please? I would greatly appreciate it. Thank You!

Yours truly,
-JM

Dear JM: While celiac disease and cystic fibrosis may have some intestinal symptoms in common they are two very different diseases. I cannot fathom why the doctor would not do a sweat test if he seriously considers that a possibility. Since your doctor doesn't wish to refer you elsewhere have him call the specialist you are seeing and arrange for the testing to be done or give you an explanation of why it isn't necessary and what the plan is for coming to a diagnosis and treatment plan. Dealing with all the HMOs in the USA is plenty of hassle, but I have no experience with government run health care, so I don't know what your options are. If your doctor does not provide this minimum of basic care for a sick child, I suggest you contact the appropriate authorities to find out what your options are.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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3 Year Old Refuses to Toilet Train

Dr.: I have what some consider a minor problem, but I consider it serious. I simply cannot get my three-year old to quit using the diaper and transition to the toilet. He will wear underwear temporarily, but the only way he will urinate is if we constantly take him to the toilet to prevent an accident. He will not go on his own. Now he has taken to holding his bowel movement until his stomach hurts. We have been trying to be subtle, but we are at wits end. He cannot attend Head Start in diapers.

It is easier to poddy on the move in his diaper, I understand but...

Can you help me?

Thanks

-GV

Dear GV: I understand that the ultimate goal of toilet training is independent use of the bathroom with no accidents, but you may be expecting too much from your 3 year old. Staying clean and dry has to become a habit. Your son is used to making a mess, so it doesn't bother him. The only reason he cares at all about it is that you care. If you have to take him to the bathroom regularly in order for him to stay dry, then do just that until it becomes a habit and he has forgotten how it feels to wear diapers and wet himself. Please read my articles Potty Training, and Fecal Soiling.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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You Can Only Get a Cold by Catching It

Dear Dr. Warren: My son is 7 months old and has cold triggered asthma. He has had many colds since he was 2 months old. Does his asthma make him more susceptible to colds? He is cared for by a friend and his exposure to viruses is limited.

-Vicki

Dear Vicki: An asthmatic's entire respiratory tract is often more reactive than a non asthmatics. As a result asthmatics' colds often seem worse. Add to that, that they wheeze when they have a cold, and even a minor cold doesn't go unnoticed. But whether a person has asthma or not, the only way he can catch a cold is to be exposed to it, therefore, your son must be expose d each time he catches a cold.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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Swelling in the Genital Area

Dear Dr. Warren: My 6 month old daughter has developed swelling in her genital area. It is more pronounced on the left side than right. The area does not seem to be sensitive to touch but is swelling rather rapidly. She also has a lump in her breast/nipple area. She has had tests to check her hormone levels and all is within range.

She is on several medications and has several health problems. She has hydrocephalus and has a shunt. For this condition she takes Dilantin to prevent seizures. She also has Cystic Fibrosis and takes enzymes, Zantac, and ADEKs. These meds have not caused any type of reaction in the past, so I am unsure whether it might be the meds or some other condition. Any suggestions you may provide would be appreciated.

-BS

Dear BS: Without a more detailed description, the only thing I can say is that an enlarging swelling in the genital area may be a hernia. Your daughter should be checked by her pediatrician.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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Erythroblastosis Fetalis & ADHD

Dear Dr. Warren: My son, 14 and a half, has disorders in math, reading, writing and attention. He also wets the bed, at night. Looking back, his medical history is unremarkable accept for something he had gotten at the beginning of the third trimester of pregnancy, because of an Rh incompatibility. The name of the disease is erythroblastosis fetalis. He was my only child that had it and is the only child that has deficits and problems. My first three kids were born healthy and have had no problems. They are ,in fact, academically accelerated. My question to you, Dr.Warren, is, "can my son's difficulties in learning be connected to the disease he had while I carried him?"

Please let me know what you think. It is very important to me.

Thank you very much!

-SM

Dear SM: My literature search did not find any studies linking erythroblastosis fetalis to learning disabilities or ADHD. This could mean that the matter wasn't studied, or that the statistical association wasn't high enough for anyone to pursue the matter and publish a study. There is a potential theoretical link which depends on how severely affected your son was. The brain is highly dependent on oxygen and glucose. If your son developed a profound enough anemia from the erythroblastosis to decrease the oxygen carrying capacity of his blood, or if he was edematous and required intensive care for a variety of associated ills, it certainly could have served as a risk factor to developing his current problems.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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