Ask Dr. Warren ~ The Questions & Their Answers


14 October 2002

  1. Headaches
  2. Sex Play Among Children
  3. Persistent Cough, Difficulty Breathing, & Disturbed Sleep
  4. Reasons for Removing a Testicle
  5. Heredity of Aortic Aneurysms
  6. Cafe au Lait Spots
  7. Shingles
  8. Pediatric Pulmonary Specialists
  9. Disclaimer

Disclaimer

Dear Readers:
Dr. Warren hopes to help all who ask his advice and to enlighten all who read Ask Dr. Warren. For your own well being please keep in mind that advice you read here may not apply exactly to your own situation, and that if you are sick, no information on the web can take the place of a hands on examination by your physican who knows you and cares about you.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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Headaches

Dear Dr. Warren: I get headaches really often. My doctor has told me that they are just stress headaches, but I have no stress in my life. I almost get one a day. Some are really strong, while others are not. Medication doesn't seem to help at all. Could it be some other reason?

-SY

Dear SY: There are many causes for headaches. Muscle tension headaches may be provoked by physical stresses such as fatigue, physical activity, dehydration, and heat, as well as emotional stress. Migraines often run in families. Caffeine addiction with withdrawal can cause headache. If the pain is severe or frequent, see a neurologist for further evaluation.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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Sex Play Among Children

Dear Doctor: I have been babysitting my 6 year old nephew for a hour after school. The other day I received a phone call from the boy's father. He told me that something funny was going on between his son and my 8 year old boy. The boy had told his father that my son was asking to see his penis. I calmly told him that my son told me 2 weeks ago that his son was begging to see my son's penis. The other child admitted he lied and that it was he asking to see my boy's penis. Now, the child is saying that he had his mouth on my son's penis and my son's mouth on his. I carefully questioned my son about this and he said that the boy never touched his private parts. Other than removing the other child from my home what should I do? or should I do nothing at all? I am afraid that this may scar my child. Please help.

-D

Dear D: Since the child is your nephew, it would be undesirable to keep him out of your house; however, it is clear that the boys should not be left together unsupervised for even brief periods of time. Therefore, you will have to set and enforce rules about where they are to be during the entire time your nephew is in your house.

I am a bit surprised that you did nothing when your son first told you about your nephew's request to see his penis rather than waiting until your son was accused of doing something "funny." It is imperative that both boys be told the rules about sex play, and it is essential that you talk to your son about not keeping any secrets from you even (especially) if someone threatens him. Make sure you do this in such a way as to make your son feel safe talking to you rather than feeling threatened by you if he doesn't talk.

Sexual curiosity is perfectly normal in a 6 or 8 year old, but looking for or talking about sexual stimulation such as putting a mouth on a penis suggests that the child has been told about or had a sexual experience with someone older. There is a possibility that your nephew has been sexually abused.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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Persistent Cough, Difficulty Breathing, & Disturbed Sleep

Dear Dr. Warren: Please help! I am very concerned about my 2year 5month old daughter's ability to breathe.

Three months ago she had a runny nose that lasted over a month. Thinking it was allergies, I allergy proofed her room and used a vaporizer. It then turned into a cold. Her runny nose then stopped after four days and I assumed her cold was gone, but she developed a cough. After using Infant's Robitussin for over a week, I took her to our family doctor because the cough would not go away. He recommended an antibiotic:Trimox (something like that). After the ten days that it took to finish this antibiotic, her cough lessened but recurred at night. I administered more over the counter cough medicine for about two weeks to help her sleep uninterrupted by the cough, but not on a daily basis. Now it is three months later and she still gets very congested at night, her breathing is extremely loud, and lately it has gotten so bad that she tosses and turns constantly at night. I know she is not getting the rest she needs because her afternoon nap has increased from 45 minutes to 2 hours. Nevertheless, it is a challenging nap for her. She is awakened by not being able to breath from her nose. I sometimes manage to get her to breathe from her mouth, and she sleeps for a maximum of 25 minutes as I rock her in my arms. But she really doesn't know how to sleep with her mouth open to facilitate breathing.

Please enlighten me on why she could be so congested that: her breathing is extremely loud, she coughs about three times a day to clear the congestion, her sleep is being interrupted, and antibiotics as well as over the counter allergy medication, cold medication, and decongestants are not helping the problem go away.

I have given her so many different types of over the counter medication but nothing helps. I never give her any symptom-relief medication for more than a week since the bottle suggests not to. I am scared to give her any more. I am also scared to take her to the doctor for fear that he'll only prescribe more antibiotics and more symptom-relief medication.

Help, if you can. I anxiously await a response from you. Thank you for your time.

-Mrs. L

Dear Mrs. L: If you child cannot breathe through her nose and has not responded to antibiotic treatment, allergy medications, or decongestants, she may have enlarged adenoids. An ENT surgeon would be the best physician to see for evaluation.

Persistent coughing which has not responded to antibiotics may be a sign of asthma. For the doctor to tell if your child is wheezing she must be kept quiet and calm during the examination, and he may have to squeeze on her chest as the air comes out in order to elicit a wheeze. If she is wheezing, there are many medications which can relieve her symptoms.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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Reasons for Removing a Testicle

Dear Dr. Warren: My partner, now age 22 had one of his testicles removed when he was four-years-old. The reasoning was that it wasn't developing at the same rate as the other. Could you tell me the cause of such a problem, what the surgery is called and how common this is? It has caused psychological trauma and these answers would be an asset in overcoming this. Thank-you.

-AB

Dear AB: The surgery for removal of a testicle is called and orchiectomy or an orchidectomy. The reason you give sounds a little far fetched, so it would be useful if you could get more information. If the testicle had been undescended and was atrophic (underdeveloped) there is a higher risk of cancer, and so removal might be done. A torsion (twisting) of the testicle would cut off it's blood supply resulting in the death of the testicle. If a torsion is not treated in time to save the testicle, the testicle would be removed. The only other reason I can think of to remove a child's testicle is cancer. Perhaps my surgical colleagues might think of other reasons.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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Heredity of Aortic Aneurysms

Dear Dr. Warren: The biological mother of my adopted son died as a result of an abdominal aortic anuerysm. Is this a condition that could have been inherited by my son? Is there any testing which can determine if he has this same condition?

Thank you for your assistance.

-LBS

Dear LBS: Certain connective tissue disorders such as Marfan's Syndrome and Ehlers Danlos syndrome have a higher risk of aneurysm. These syndromes are recognized by other clinical features. One study suggests that an autosomal recessive predisposition exists for late-onset abdominal aneurysms. This is not likely to be a concern during childhood.

An ultrasound study is the best and safest way to screen for an abdominal aortic aneurysm.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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Cafe au Lait Spots

Dear Dr. Warren: I would really appreciate a response to my email. I scanned through your faq's and didn't find what I was looking for. My daughter just had her 4 month checkup at her pediatrician. Over the past months I discovered what I thought were dime sized round birth marks on her body. She was born with one and has developed 4 more over time. Our doctor said they were cafe o lait??? marks. He went on to examine her and said that her eyes weren't lined up exactly yet and with the combination of the spots and a couple of neurological things he found, (I'm not sure what exactly), that we should see a specialist in genetics. He went on to say that at most it could be some disease that forms lesions or cysts on her organs, skin, and colon. Now I'm sure I didn't remember everything exactly as he stated to me, but my question is, What can you tell me about these spots? Is this serious, how worry should I be?

-SC

Dear SC: Cafe au lait spots are seen as part of neurofibromatosis, also known as von Recklinghausen's disease. Neruofibromatosis is a genetic disease, so you may find a family history if you look. Neurofibromas are benign tumors. The symptoms they cause depend primarily on where they grow. Since neurofibromatosis is primarily a neurological disorder, even though it is inherited genetically, and your pediatrician has found other neurological "things," your child should be seen by a pediatric neurologist.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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Shingles

Dear Dr. Warren: My 5 year old has shingles,,,she already had chicken pox at 1 year old. How serious is this,, what can I do,, is it contagious, and what could bring this on,,,how long does it last, does she need to stay home from school and if so,, how long.. Thank-you.

-SS

Dear SS: Shingles is caused by reactivation of chicken pox virus which lies dormant in nerve roots. The blisters have live virus in them, but unlike chicken pox, the virus is not present in the respiratory tract so it is only contagious by direct contact. If the lesions are covered and your daughter does not touch them the risk of contagion is nil. Nonetheless, patients with active shingles should not be around newborns or people with reduced immunity.

Shingles is not serious, but it can be quite painful. It resolves on its own usually within 2 weeks. Treatment with Zovirax (acyclovir), an antiviral agent, has been shown to decrease the length of time of viral shedding, pain, and time to resolution if started within 72 hours. The benefits of Zovirax are greatest in adults older than 50. Medication is generally not used for children except when they have decreased immunity or a severe outbreak.

When the blisters are fully scabbed and there are no new ones your daughter will no longer be contagious. If she were in an upper grade, I would recommend covering the lesions so she could return to school early, but at 5 years of age, it would be best for her to stay home until the lesions are scabbed, about 1 week.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

Note to my readers: Recent studies suggest that early treatment can minimize or prevent post-herpetic neuralgia (prolonged pain after shingles).
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Pediatric Pulmonary Specialists

Dear Dr. Warren: My friend told me about a two year old child whose mother had a history of drug abuse. The baby was adopted by her aunt. The baby has had health problems since birth. Recently, the adoptive mother was told to choose between the baby's quality of life(ie-no mechanical support) and longevitity with the use of medical devices because her lungs are "hardening". Do you know of any specialty pediatric centers that have exceptional pediatric pulmonary programs/physicians? Please help me help my friend. Thank you.

-JC

Dear JC: One of the best known centers for lung disease in the country is the National Jewish Medical and Research Center, 1400 Jackson Street, Denver, Colorado 80206 (303)388-4461 (800)222-LUNG, whose web site can be found at http://www.njc.org/. Perhaps they can direct you.

Sincerely,
Dr. Warren

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